Firstly I have to say a huge thank you to Cara and the Pleasure Panel, and of course Simply Pleasure for giving me the opportunity to fall in love with the beloved Doxy Wand! It’s taken me absolutely ages to write this review, as just as I think about writing it, I come up with another way to use it! And I have to be thorough now, all in the name of fair testing!
I am an absolute lover of direct clit stimulation, and adore the deep, rumbly pinpoint vibes such as those from the We-Vibe Tango. I guess this is one of the reasons why I had never really thought about buying a Doxy Wand, because they just seemed so big, cumbersome and heavy duty! I do own a cheaper wand which I have had a few years but rarely use due to its inefficiency to make me orgasm. I really was living in a world where I had no idea of what I was truly missing out on!
When the opportunity came up for me to try a Doxy, I wasn’t hesitant and jumped at the chance. I had heard only great things from fellow owners, yet in my own mind I was unconvinced that it would suit me. It was arranged that I would receive a black Doxy (black is my favourite colour for sex toys and accessories) in exchange for an honest review. No more than two days later the Doxy Wand Massager arrived on my doorstep, and I was thrilled!
The packaging is so sleek and sophisticated for such a toy. Nestled snugly and safely in the box was my Doxy Wand.
Visually the Doxy is stunning. I love the matte black colour that is paired with the light grey buttons and head, with the silver accent. Personally I love this colour combination as it is fairly gender neutral, and it matches with a lot of my bondage accessories!
I like that the head is soft and squidgy and feels quite padded. The neck is also flexible with enough give that I know I won’t end up sore from pushing it too hard against my clitoris at the point of orgasm. I’m aware that the head is porous but as the toy is only being used externally on myself (for now but read on!) that isn’t a problem for me.
I like that the buttons are quite chunky and textured, so when you are using the Doxy Wand it shouldn’t be difficult to locate them even with lubey fingers!
A long mains wire is also a plus as I’m pretty certain that I will have no difficulties in being too far away from a plug. The bonus of it being a mains powered toy of course is that there are no batteries to go flat, and it will never lose power! Hurrah.
Ok, it’s only fair that I include a small section about the expected loud volume of the Doxy. Yes, it’s loud. Yes, if you use it upstairs, people downstairs will hear it. Is that a bad thing? For me, no. I’m lucky enough that it’s just the two of us live here so noise isn’t an issue. The Doxy throws out so much power that it would be almost impossible to make it a quiet toy. In its favour though I think it can pull off the sound. It’s the equivalent of a huge sports car with a booming exhaust that turns heads. The unmistakable sound of a Doxy roaring into action helps with the anticipation and builds for the climax.
Losing My Doxy Virginity
The first time I used the Doxy Wand I made sure I was as ready as I could be. I chose the old faithful laid on my back, knees bent position. I made sure to use plenty of water based lube on my vulva and the Doxy head to avoid any friction. Not knowing what to expect I turned the Doxy on and began to scroll through the speed settings. After about 2 minutes I thought I had reached the highest setting and it wasn’t long before I reached orgasm. As the vibrations rumbled deep inside my vagina, it felt as though I could feel each contraction as the orgasm became stronger and stronger.
I could not believe that a toy could work so quickly for the first ever attempt! Usually it takes a while to find out what angle and position works best. The Doxy Wand is ideal for hands free orgasms if you find the weight of wands too much to handle. What shocked me even more was that after the strong orgasm (it got too strong for me to attempt a second go!) I realised that I wasn’t on the highest setting after all! Usually I require toys ramped up all the way, but I was only just over half way!
Cleaning Up The Doxy
After use a simple wipe down of the head with a baby wipe, followed by a spritz of sex toy cleaner is all that is needed. If like me, you own a Doxy and you worry about it when it’s not in use, then fear not! I managed to buy a Doxy wand case from a UK retailer on eBay. These are included with the Doxy Die Cast models, but are available for around £15 separately.
Now I keep my Doxy safely stored away in the padded case keeping it dust and scratch free until I next use it! Even if you don’t want to buy a case, the white box the Doxy Wand comes in will keep it safe and dust free!
Doxy Wand For Men?
My husband is quite open to sex toys, but he has never seen the appeal of using a vibrator externally, and neither had I. When I was taking my turn to be in control I reached out to my Fetlife friends for some inspiration and one recommended using the Doxy Wand under my husbands balls whilst he was restrained and unable to move. Hmm I couldn’t think of a reason not to!
That night I had my husband tied and blindfolded and the Doxy Wand was my finale piece! I watched him squirm in pleasure trying to wriggle away from the Doxy Wand head as it rumbled just below his balls. The feeling of control for me was amazing! As I turned up the speed I watched as he twitched and moaned in pleasure. He noted how the vibrations seemed to travel both upwards and along his penis, but also down past his bum and to the bottom of his spine.
Although it’s not a toy he would use alone, he certainly enjoyed being at my mercy with the Doxy Wand!
I am absolutely thrilled with the Doxy Wand. It has so many uses and never fails to deliver a quick and powerful orgasm. I would say that this is a must have item for any toy box and is certainly value for money. I can’t believe I lasted this long without one.